What is sex about?

Pornography is our sex ed teacher nowadays. Why do we even need sex education in schools, if we have easily accessible porn wherever we look? Sex is a taboo topic amongst many which is a big problem, because we can only rely on our knowledge obtained from porn (and maybe some from the books we’ve read on the topic). This shouldn’t be the main exemplar for many reasons, including unrealistic occurences, the fact that it is extremely unrealistic and it also often censures important things such as using protection, dirty details and period sex. Nevertheless, the problem lies not only in porn, it’s with the lack of open and honest discussions about it. Makelovenotporn.com is a website where there are realistic pornography videos, and if you can’t get information from elsewhere, it’s a great option for learning. You can be an uploader as well, and you can even make a list, just like on spotify. You can save these or you can send them to your partner as subtle hints as to what you want to do with them in the bedroom. You can avoid the awkward conversation about what each of you like, without feeling neglected or unheard. This certainly does not mean that this is enough, communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. You need to talk in order to know what your partner really loves, what they may not like or what their secret desire is. Sex is about pleasure and fun, and because of that we need to know what the other person enjoys as well, and make sure that it’s not only a 2 minutes long violent act.