Our relationships, sexuality, and attitudes are shaped by porn. This means 2 things:
1, one without and experience cannot explore what one might like in the bed. This is woeful because that way one can not enjoy fully what sex offers.
2, porn is the ultimate sex education. And what does pornography teaches to the youth? The answer is easy: aggression. There was a study done by Natalie Purcell (Ph.D.) in 2012. She watched the 100 most popular best-selling porn movies, and she has learned that in almost every scene people in love were aggressive with each other. And by aggressive she meant: atm (penis from ass to mouth directly), gagging (one chocking from the penis), hair pulling and choking one another. In the '80s this kind of behavior in a film was unheard of, but in our days it is the most casual thing to happen. In a similar study in 2005, they have watched 250 movies and on 9 out of 10 scenes there was physical and verbal aggression.
The 2 most common ways women were called in porn are "slut" and "bitch". And what is more astounding, is that women's responses to these harassments are neutral or positive but never negative. If one was hitten on the face in real life by one's lovedone how would one react? Positive and say 'thank you, that felt good" or negative and say "hey, what the heck?" There are 6 years old boys who strumbled on porn, women who don't feel pretty enough, addicts who can't quit and men, who are so eager to be as good as a pornstar and get the typical moaning reaction from a girl, but they can't and they feel like they have failed. How good teacher pornography is?
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